Showing posts with label Abigailes Story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Abigailes Story. Show all posts

Thursday, May 20, 2021

Emergency Human Reset Needed Parental Alienation Rampant System Failing ...





Link to attend: https://fb.me/e/2JCFVGzo1
Emergency Human Reset Needed Parental Alienation Rampant System Failing #Familylaw #Parentalrights
Welcome to our guest host Lisa Breece Linke
Lisa has over twenty years of professional and compassionate expertise as a Child Development Counselor and specializing in Behavior Therapy and modification. She has a diverse background in the mental health field as well as the legal field and is well-versed with case law and case study in the family court system & criminal court system As well as being a Landmark Forum graduate, Lisa is well-versed in conflict resolution and communication skills for solution for the entire family dynamic. All Curriculum Vieta's are available upon request, as well as personal & professional references. Lisa's greatest pride & Joy is her daughter, Laila. 
PAS Family Advocacy is founded on a 3rd step prayer. being of service to use our pain , experience, and knowledge to educate and advocate for others. Parental Alienation or IPV has profited into a $50 BILLION dollars a year, causing detrimental harm to the innocent babies whom cry for their fit parent nightly, yet can not be seen or touched, or rocked to sleep. This is considered IPV, Intimate Partner Violence to the DSM-5. Any mental health professional should be fully versed on this pathology and underlying signs leading up to full alienation. Between the uninformed and failed court system & the Narcissistic ex-spouse, there is hope, we promise you. 

with health and wellness, 
Paris 

#JusticeforourFamilies 
#StopTraffickingourChildren  https://abigailesstory.blogspot.com

My first interview for this Handicapped Child Human Trafficking event was with James at Podcast Buzzfeed and can be found here.  

Friday, March 5, 2021

1,384 days May 21, 2017 - March 5, 2021 of estrangement and alienation

  Mommy loves you all more than life itself ....

    Hang in there -  the sun will shine again - the clouds will part again . 

        Hang in there - This is not the End <3 

Love, 

Mommy forever <3 

    


This is not the end 


    No matter what it looks like.  No matter what it sounds like.  No matter what is said.  Have faith- have hope this is not the end.  

    My call today with our beautiful Abigaile.  My heart is so shattered.  I trust the one who gave me life - who gave me Spirit and who breathed Life into me.

    I can only share the part that stood out to me most- it is difficult to focus beyond this.  I type all of her responses and words and how she responds to my story.  

    I mailed Abigaile her own copy of " A Little Sweet Tea "  

Storytime:  

A Little Sweet tea -  she is coughing a lot, screaming a lot, saying hi, saying bye over and over screaming bye ( a feeling of not being heard), her voice is breaking up screaming bye, breaking as in that broken and heartfelt broken sadness of feeling defeated.  A feeling of despair of never being heard. 


My beautiful girls sounds sick again - please pray for her - pray for our families.  


with Love, hugs, sugars and more love ,

your forever mommy 

xoxo

Sunday, June 21, 2020

Fathers day June 21, 2020 - 1128 days alienation - estrangement



Happy Fathers Day 
to Allen, our girls dad.  I pray that Allens day is made complete by being able to share this day with our daughters on this day that recognizes Allen as dad. 


All of our actions are all a reflection of the God or god that we serve.  
This was in 2011 or so - we would go download at the beach almost every day at dinner time.  Allen and I would have a glass of wine at the beach.  I would have dinner ready in a picnic and as soon as allen would come home we loaded the van and headed to the beach to eat dinner and watch the sunset at dinner time.  I thought this was the best time , the most relaxing time. This was our family time at the beach.  Allen with Abigaile. 
At the Grand Canyon on the way to California.  It was November when we left Arkansas to make the Journey to California to make our little girl well.  We weren't sure which treatments, therapies etc would work- which ones wouldn't. But we ( myself, allen, natascha and Abigaile ) were all committed to another to help our little injured soldier.   I don't have photos of the girls and I.  Its odd that I have a lot of photos of allen and the girls.  Ive asked for photos - Im not a selfie person but I would like photos of the girls and I.  I thought I would throw this one in - this is OUR FAMILY.  Sadly there are friends and family that actually PRIDE themselves in destroying our family.  Natascha, me, Abigaile and Allen. 
In  our first adventure on the way to California - to do recommended therapy and treatments suggested by Abigailes Dr. Kartzinel.  Who followed her since she was approx. 18 months old.  I believe this was a Cracker Barrel along the way. It was our favorite stop to get something to eat, use the restroom, walk around the store for a break and then keep traveling. What an awesome thing to do for children - more families do this than you know.  





In CA doing Rtms therapy - has a tight grip on that little girl.  We had some scary things happen early on during the trauma we all experienced because of Abigailes injury from her serious vaccine reaction.  But when we were together Abigaile was well because Abigailes family supported HER and we went through everything with her.  And well now during this time, is by far more traumatizing and worse that the initial trauma of the vaccine because even then we realized the damage the drugs did- sadly its ignored now.  Abigaile with Allen. 
This was in New Mexico at a hotel.  You can see we were dressed from the Grand Canyon.  It was still unseasonably warm in Arkansas when we left we actually had shorts, Tee shirts and flip flops on.  We got to the Grand Canyon and there was a massive cold front that came through.  We were all freezing, couldn't get to winter clothes ( yes it was that cold).  We had to find a WalMart so that we could all find jeans and long sleeves tee shirts to put on.
Natascha, Allen and Abigaile.
Amazing healing that God has done in the right circumstances- when in the will of God.  Not drugged, just doing the right care plan and the right implementation.  Abigaile at therapy.  Standing all alone with no help or assistance from anyone. I would time Abigaile doing this at home and she could easily stand for 20 or more minutes at a time.  Not drugged.   

Arkansas our last Christmas prior to leaving for CA. for therapy and treatment for our Abigaile.  Christmas 2010. Allen, Abigaile and Natascha.  
In Ca. in Rtms therapy with Abigaile.  Allen and Natascha - the crazy things that we do for our children that might not look right to others - but when they WORK - they WORK.


I couldn't get the photos to place in order as I wanted but I wanted to reflect the day that honors dads.  Children honoring their dad is more than buying a card, buying gift and spending time with them.  These days are however a human tradition and have nothing to do with being honored as a dad.  What a dad teaches his children is by far more important than any card or gift.  When a dad teaches their children to honor God first and the ways of God first that is the greatest honor to God.  

Respect and honor toward a mom and dad is a commandment of God.  This is so that the child, even as an adult child can still honor their mom or dad.  

Exodus 20:12 


happy fathers day 

  





Saturday, November 3, 2012

Fun in the Son and then some

  We were exhausted this past weekend and decided to go for a picnic at the beach.  I had mid terms and needed to read. When we go to the beach its no longer 7 minutes its 15-20 minutes depending on traffic and traffic lights.  So we took food, lunch and I took some pictures. The clouds were just incredible. It was a little cooler that day and over cast the marine layer came in as well. I love the clouds and the sky over the ocean there is nothing like it.  Depending on the day, and weather the sky literally changes color before your eyes.  The water changes color depending on the sky. I wanted to sharre some photos. I'm going to be printing these off and matting them and will be selling inndividual, in sets or bundles as well. Be sure to check out the studio we have a lot in progress right now. 
  We took this week off from therapy as one then both girls got sick, Allen was in class all week. We have found a new favorite spot on the beach. The pictures are in San Juan Capistrano Beach. It was not my favorite place at first as the amtrak runs behind it now I don't even notice it. Ill add more pictures as I figure out how to.  Meanwhile if you see a photo that you like and you would like to oorder illl let you know if I have one available and the pricing. Hope you enjoy! Who would have ever known that my God would have sent us where there is no winters, and where my Abigaile would walk, my Natascha would grow up to be the most beaautifull young lady? I could walk on the beach with my family and get help for my baby as well. Thank you God what a gift You have given to me I am forever grateful.

Much love and blessings,
Paris






Friday, October 26, 2012

Just another day in paradise and we aren't talking Hawaii..

  I won't complain too much even though I spent the day handwashing dishes it was still mid to upper 70s. I did want to post though what my girlies did today at school.  They did fall crafts with dad..
  Nata made sets of coasterrs in a fall them with cork, berrries and beautiful autumn leaves.. we hhave these in sets off 4 or 6. You can visit our Urban Organics Store and email us from there if you are interested for pricing...
  Ms. Abi also made some stick puppets with daddy, she made Tom Turkey, Betsy Pilgrim, and Otto Owl.. these are made up names but the fiigures are those of a pilgrim, owl and turkey. She had fun and did great with foamies.  She can glue or tape because of the multiple chemical disorder causes her to have drop seizures.
  Me, I washed dishes all day and cooked for everyone.
Just another day in paradise ....
God bless!








Sunday, April 8, 2012

The calm before the storm- Praise be to God ...

  I have watched my little girl over the past eight years go from a baby that was developing normal , to going through a terribly traumatic early childhood after being injured by a vaccine reaction.  This year before this Easter weekend we have seen some very significant changes that we have been seeing in her. It is all given glory to God! It has not been easy and there are things that have seriously tested our faith. We feel like through all of this we have walked through the depths of hell and honestly, I know we have come no where near it. There are days that I think I could not handle anything but God says He is in control.  We have had a really good time with Abigaile and she has progressed wonderfully.  The past couple of days are like walking through hell again but I guarantee God is our front guard and our rear guard and God is in control.
  So in the past 48 hours we had our account on lockdown, our debit cards cancelled because my husbands debit card was stolen and they cancelled mine as well even though it is different account numbers.  It doesn't stop here.  I normally don't talk about our personal life but I am going to this time.  It is to simply make a statement of just how much evil is in our world. There are so many people who are spiritually sleeping and will be caught off guard.  Here is a little history to make a long, story short.
  In 2008 we were close to winning our vaccine injury case for our daughter.  We were told by our team of attorneys in Memphis that to go ahead and get treatments or whatever care was needed for our daughter and so long as it was vaccine injury related it WOULD BE reimbursed when we won our case. We got treatments at NW Health and Lifestyles in Bentonville Ar.  This place is rotten to the core! We went in for assessment and told them our case they said they would work with us. We told them that our attorneys advised that it would be such and such date and time we should have things closed. Our Dr. Kartzinel was treating our daughter , has the majority of her life since she was about 7 mos old. They suggested a Care Credit account to keep everything in one account and that way it could be paid off. We don't have credit cards and did not like the idea of having one as we have had credit cards in the past and were happy to get rid of them. It was suggested that the more treatments we signed up for 40 treatments. Our Dr. K had ordered 40 treatments but was specific on his prescription of how he wanted them done. It is critical to our daughters health as she is very sensitive and allergic to many things.  The levels of Oxygen and the pressure she needs to be at so as not to cause seizures. We did 8 dives and the last dive that we did because the nurse was called to turn up our tank. It cause our daughter to have seizures and I was even lightheaded for days following this. We were rightfully upset. We spoke about it to the technician Kevin and also spoke to the son of the owner.  We told the son that the nurse disrespectfully came in and without warning turned up the pressure when they had specific orders. After that treatment they took us to an office for a meeting, and fired us. Yes, fired us! We asked for her medical records and they refused them even though we were paid in full. We had to hire an attorney who got a private investigator to go in and retrieve the records. We found in the chart where the owners son , who is not a licensed (anything) he is running this place he wrote very derogatory information and defamation of my husbands character. He is not legally allowed to write in the chart. They fired us, then kept the rest of the care credit funds. It looks like a set up now that I look back on it. I fought care credit, and appealed it but they sided with this owner. Our daughter was very sick and having hundreds of drop seizures sometimes in a day because of this.  It is a lot to care for her full time. When I called to speak to care credit or a representative to try and let them know that we paid for so many visits up front they kept adding late fees and all their other garbage fees. The next thing is that the people I spoke to, could not understand English or communicate it. It ends up they denied us.  It went to collections and going on the word of the attorneys that it would be an expense that would be reimbursed .  Well when we sent it to the attorneys, they said that when the funds went to the Trust for the vaccine injury that we could pull it from that. We submitted $xxx,ooo.oo for her care that we paid out of pocket and they told us the government would pay us $XX,000.00 to reimburse what we had been out of pocket. They started dropping the numbers and told us that we needed to settle so that we didn't take a risk of losing more. Let me tell you it is not enough and we can't use these funds for our personal care or hers.  This is for her medical care. I was in the process of taking this to the Arkansas state attorney generals office and we ended up moving here and our feet haven't stopped hitting the ground from treatments and care. Well here's what happened this past Thursday, my debit card got stopped ( hubbys stolen debit card) called Friday the bank they said they would research it and send new cards and expedite (we are in Ca our bank is in Fla. ). It was Saturday morning that the stink hit the fan when we tried to purchase gas in our van, that we had to drive 2 hours to pick up food for our daughter because of the damn vaccine that injured her. In the process of driving 2 hours I found out that care credit hired attorneys to sue me. Well they shut my account down, my only funds for taking care of my daughter. We were never notified by the bank, the trustee or anyone else not only did they shut it down but they shut everything down to where we are a few thousand dollars in the negative so any bills that we paid or food we bought we have insufficient funds fees on.  We have to have faith all this will be handled. God is in control. I hate the devil, loathe him he is a liar and a theif and we have a lot of liars and thieves in this world.
  The bright light to all this is the video below that I am posting. This is from last week we were praising God and giving Him glory as we always have for our daughters healing. I tell the devil beneath my feet you lying dirtbag and eat dust!
this all happened with in 2 days time.... 

Well for some reason I'm unable to upload the other videos there is apparently an issue with uploading more than one.

It is also my dear husbands birthday today Happy Birthday Allen I love you - you are precious to me!

It was 8 years ago the enemy tried to take our Abigaile on Allens birthday.  We stood our ground with prayer and the Word of God. My husband noticed last night the time that it has been 8 years and the same time and date stamp as her seizure from the vaccine.  
  It is difficult as a parent of a special needs child you simply can not feel adequate to give them all they need.  Our daughter might be further along had we done some things differently, but Im not going to live   in the past we are moving to the future. I keep asking for wisdom, I continue to ask him to have a heart like Ruth without resentment.  Our God is a good God and I know He loves us. It is difficult to see sometimes with all the waves and storms and turbulence of life. God is near.

I will upload in another post..... 
God is great! 


Friday, October 28, 2011

Writing .. The Day in the Life of a Vaccine Injured Child

  I have been asked many times, "why don't you write a book"? Well my response is I don't have a lot of time. I spend a lot of time trying to figure how I am going to get things done that have to be done. I do want to make an effort though. I feel that information that I have is valuable to many people. There are many families with and with out special needs that always need coaching in the area of Faith.  We just so happen to have a special needs child, and so our faith has to be at a different level. I love my daughter more than anything but she is a challenge! We moved our family 1600 miles West with promise of a job when we got here, but it didn't happen they told my husband after our FMLA expired they still had a job for him in Arkansas but not in California. We have spent a year looking, applying, interviewing - Nothing.  We move on.
  We started this journey of faith many years ago but didn't realize it was faith. We started trying to overcome one battle after another and before you know it, all the battles seem to run together. We are now at a place where we start looking for the battles before they happen. Do the battles always happen, yes, but we are able to over come them. Do we get frustrated, yes, but we know they don't last forever.
  As my husband was out looking for a job this past week, starting week before last, he and Abigaile started getting sick. They have been sick for over a week now. UUGGHH! I hate it when you have a child that is ill, much less one that you can't give anything to - so they feel better.
  It is more than difficult to get anything done while there are ill people in the house.  Nothing seems to go the right way. I have learned you just have to do the bare necessities, shelter, food, water, and whatever travel you have to do and move on soldier. God does tell us there will be trials and tribulations in this world, I think  He must have forgot to limit ours. It seems like a constant battle. I was reading last night and let me share with you what I found, or did God, like He did know that I needed it (I'm at the end of my rope right now) and put it right in front of me? God does these sort of things.

 They were helped against them, and the Hagrites and all who were with them were given into their hand; for they cried out to God in the battle, and He answered their 
prayers because they trusted in Him. 1 Chr. 5:20. 


  Here is what Matthew Henrys commentary says about it, and I believe this is true. 
 The two tribes and a half seated on the east side of Jordan were made captives by the king of Assyria, because they had forsaken the Lord. Only two things are here recorded concerning these tribes. 1. They all shared in a victory. Happy is that people who live in harmony together, who assist each other against the common enemies of their souls, trusting in the Lord, and calling upon him. 2. They shared in captivity. They would have the best land, not considering that it lay most exposed. The desire of earthly objects draws to a distance from God's ordinances, and prepares men for destruction.

We get so caught up trying to make everything happen, get everything done that we forget what is really important. It doesn't mean that we should never take time to ourselves. It also doesn't mean that we shouldn't plan and try to organize and work.  It just means that we can only do so much and instead of trying to make things happen sometimes we have to let it go, and let God!
 
  When you are sick, you really get down time to think about this.  My sweet little girl who is eight, but can't walk yet, can't completely talk yet, is unable to take any medications to feel better because the ones she has taken in the past has caused seizures. She was miserable, she was not sleeping, and thank the Lord she did not have one seizure. She did have a lot of drop seizures just prior to all her sick symptoms showing. We hadn't dealt with those seizures in a long time. I don't miss those stupid things, in fact, I hate seizures!  My youngest princess was so miserable. Then yesterday, this stinking sick thought it was coming on me! I exercised my power that God has given to me and said I do not get sick and I refuse this sickness on me , my smallest princess was laying her sweet little head on my shoulder and in the sweetest voice saying mommy I wuv  ooouuuhh. Well who can resist that.  Today I am better, trying to work on starting my day by giving it to God, then seeing what I can get finished besides that.
  We went to a really special event last week that hosted Barbara Loe Fischer. I am so glad that we went. We also got to take pictures with her. Yeah! It was because of her organization that I was able to get resources to help in when our daughter Abigailehmm where does that leave us?  We didn't have a cent and were loosing everything we had to take care of our child because of our inadequate, ineffective system.
  Barbara Loe Fischer is my hero, she has done much for our kids with vaccine injuries and continues to do so even though her own son is older now and her children are grown. If it had not been for her organization I would not have gotten the information, the resources that I needed to get our daughters case. Trust me there was no one, not the Dr who gave her the shots, the clinic, the hospital, or health Department or anyone else that would help me. I felt so helpless. There has been many sleepless nights, we lost our home, we lost cars, we have moved from rental to rental, lost family because they disagree with how we live they get angry because we don't send gifts or cards when we don't have money to send frivolous things like that. Its a shame that's all they care about. Not even a birthday card to either child for Happy Birthdays. If you have family that does things or friends when you have a special needs child, consider yourself blessed. The one who has seen us through all of this and why we are not homeless, we have never gone hungry, our clothes are worn and tattered and we still don't have a job. We do have God, we have always had God. God will be here till the end.
Barbara Loe Fischer -Newport Beach California October 2011